Living with uncertainty
When There Is Nothing to Learn From This Yet
Sometimes there is no answer yet. Surviving needn’t become another spiritual achievement.
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Room for more
than one feeling.
Read whatever meets you where you are. Questions, lived experience and room to leave something unresolved.
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Boundaries & perspective
A Boundary Doesn’t Need a Villain
A limit can be honest without turning every hurt into a battle.
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Openness vs Access
Being open and being endlessly available are different things.
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Perhaps empathy is quieter than that.
Trying to enter another person’s world while remembering that it is still their world.
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Stretching Ourselves, Not Ignoring Ourselves
There is a difference between stretching ourselves and ignoring ourselves.
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I can appreciate this and still be struggling
A good moment does not have to explain the whole of a life.
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We still get to need people
Learning to care for ourselves can sit alongside receiving care from someone else.
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Self-understanding
What if you don’t need fixing?
What happens when we make room for curiosity, rather than another instruction?
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Connection
Solitude and loneliness
Quiet can nourish us. Sometimes it can protect us, too. The difference isn’t always obvious.
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Living & noticing
What do I actually want from life now?
Some of the things that matter most begin to feel much quieter.
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